6 Things About Friendship you Have Not Known
In a present situation, friendship has become one of the basic needs,
we don’t eat, we don’t walk, we don’t study, sometimes we don’t even piss without friends,
some has many, some has few, some has very few but all have friends,
even we put different friends in different category,
like close friends, 4 am friend, best friend, cutie, sweetie, sexy, all types of friends we have
and because of the reason friendship has so much of importance, we have searched some interesting facts about friendship,
1. we reacted the same way when we are in danger or when our friend is…
our brain has a same feeling when we are in problem or our friends is in, if you also have that friend that means he is your friend, a true friend,
the psychology behind this is care for him and also he knows
all your secrets you have to help him,
okay last line was a joke…
remember one day we will also face the same problem and it’s your friend and it’s always been your friend who will surely help you
We all have bad days, or weeks, or even months. We all feel overwhelmed at times. Things usually get better. Sometimes that’s hard to remember when you’re down. But stress, depression, and even suicide happen in the lives of people young and old.
2. you don’t know but you shared 1% of your DNA to your friendship
you are more close with your friends than you think,
have you notice 2 best friends have same tone and they crack same type of jokes and they have same opinion,
Research reveals that mates have a remarkable number of the same genes.
The study, which gives new weight to the saying ‘birds of a feather flock together’, found that pals share significantly more DNA than stranger
Geneticists discovered that unrelated friends have a 1 per cent of DNA that match – about the same as fourth cousins, who share great-great-great and greattt grandparents.
‘1 % may not sound like much to the layperson, but to geneticists it is a significant number,’ said Professor Nicholas, of the Human Nature Lab at Yale University.
3. men and women can’t be friends…
what??? are you kidding me?
it is myth, it is surely a myth,
how can you say i have female or i have male friends
you are thinking now, i m mad or i have a cheap thinking
but After reading this, you have to think it again
i am not a psychologist, i reacted the same way like you do but,
A study at the University in united states named as university of Wisconsin shows that the bond friendship between men and women is a fairly recent phenomenon, and it is not possible to escape from moments of seduction and sexual tension…
“Little research has explored how men and women navigate platonic cross-sex friendships, which are presumed to involve neither sexual relations nor kin,” maintains April Bleske-Recheck, a psychologist and one of the directors of the study.
a studied of 88 friend couples and concluded that men were more physically and sexually attracted to their female friends, and tended to overestimate how these women saw them.
but that does not mean they sex or they tried to,
4. Animals too have best friends!!!
MOST animals have acquaintances but only a few species are capable of true friendship. This select group of mammals includes the higher primates, members of the horse family, elephants, cetaceans and camels and cows
cows have best friends and without best friends cows may depressed and they don’t feel good…
Yes, cows; those animals take milk from, but rarely think about. According to new research by scientists at Northampton University,cows have “best friends” and get stressed when separated
is no coincidence that all of these animals live in stable, bonded social groups. Group living has its benefits, but it can also be stressful and you cannot simply leave when the going gets tough – which is where friendship comes in. Friends form defensive coalitions that keep everyone else just far enough away, without driving them off completely.
5. friendship are not on this level before social networking
Facebook create the new definition of friendship,
now don’t need to think 100 times and asked someone,
that i want to be your friend now you just need to click and sent request to anyone to become their friends,
social network increase the bond of friendship and now people can easily share anything to anyone
But the question now is – is accumulating relationships detrimental to closer friendship ties?
Will Reader, a Doctor in Psychology at Sheffield Hallam University in the UK, notes that, although the majority of friendships start outside of the internet, the web can help us to keep up relationships that previously, because of long distance and lack of time, were lost.
6. work with friends makes you more productive but…
Friendship and work can go hand in hand. Various studies have shown that having friends helps you find work and be more happy, creative, productive and competitive in the office. In countries like India and Indonesia, some have said that their work friends understand them better than their other friends—and even their spouse.
Still, you have to be careful, because at work not everyone is equal.
A friendship with your boss endangers not only your bond, but also your position and credibility in the office. The desire to climb the corporate ladder can destroy even closer relationships: according to a recent study by LinkedIn, 68% of people born after 1980 would sacrifice a friendship for a promotion.
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